- Soak the grated jaggery in the cup of water and set it aside. 
- Once the jaggery starts to dissolve set this on low heat and mix it occasionally till it melts completely. 
- Strain this syrup to remove any impurities and set aside till needed. 
- In a seperate heavy bottomed pan, add the water and bring to a boil. 
- Add the broken wheat to this and mix without any lumps.  
- As it begins to cook and swell add the second extract of the coconut milk. 
- Let this mix cook, keep stirring so it doesnt catch the bottom. 
- Once the broken wheat has cooked it will start appearing glassy, mash a few and see if it is cooked well. 
- Then add the jaggery syrup and mix well. 
- Add the green cardamom powder and the gingerpowder as well and stir it in.  
- Let this cook on a low heat till the payasam thickens to a honey consistency.  
- Now stir in the thick coconut cream and remove from heat 
- In a small pan add the ghee and roast the cashews. once tehy are done, add the raisins and allow them to plump up. 
- Add the coconut oil roasted nuts and raisins to the payasam along with the leftover coconut oil and stir well. 
- The payasam is ready. Serve the payasam warm.